Without questions, there cannot be answers. Without the right questions being asked, confusion will still be the order of the day. Without answers, others are able to get lost and eventually miss the way. Life is wonderful and at the same time a mystery.
For you to move and live effectively in this life, you have to ask yourself some questions that will make your life journey easy and clear. Life is a puzzle to be solved. Life is a journey to be walked. In today’s post, we are looking at the most powerful questions one must ask themselves when they are still in the land of the living. Life is there to be lived you know.
What are the most powerful questions you must ask yourself in this life? You need to ask yourself the following questions as long as you are still alive in the land of the living:
- What words would you like people to use to describe you when you are not there?:
The right questions to ask yourself
Think about it, what do you want people to say about you when you are not around? You see, what others say about you behind your back matters. Why does this matter? It matters because you do not know who is there listening to the speeches about you. This is how the doors of your life are closed or opened.
You should not care about what other people say about you, yes, more specifically if it’s negative but sometimes you need to be mindful as these things can make or break you. Most people respond to what they hear and you can’t blame them. So you need to control what people say about you when you are not there. You need to therefore control the narrative.
People will talk, yes but they should be talking the nice things about you. This matters a lot more especially if the people who can change your life are around. Try to mind and know what people are really saying about you behind your back. This is very much important. So right now ask yourself, what are people saying about you behind your back? Find it out and grow and improve from there.
- What would you like people to say about you when you have passed on?
Death is part of life. Death is an event of life. It is painful but it is the transport to our creator. All of us are going home to the father one day. We will go one day. Some are going right now and some will later go. Now, since you are still here and standing, what would you like people to say about you when you have passed on?
It’s a trend this days that one is important when they are dead. When you are dead you become precious and important to some people. So what about you? What would you want people to genuinely say about you when you have passed on? What do you think they will say about you? Let’s say, you would hear them, would you like or hate whatever they are saying about you? Would you prefer it or disapprove it? Think about this.
- What would you like someone to say at your funeral?
Even though people are beautiful and good at their funerals, what do you want people to say at your funeral? If you would hear the conversations about you, what do you wish to hear about you? What do you think people are going to say at your funeral?
- How do you want your family, friends and children to remember you?
What do you want your loved ones to remember you for? Remember, your loved ones know you and have lived with you. What do you want them to say about you when you are gone? What memories must they have of you? What should they say about you once you have departed the land of the living? Think about this.
- How would you like people to talk to your loved ones about you?
What do you want people to say about you to your loved ones once you are no longer here? What should be their speech about you? What do you think others are going to tell your family and relatives about you? Believe you in me, when you are gone, people have a lot to say. What do you think others are going to say about you to your loved ones?
Conclusion
Gaining a clear perspective
This are the questions we wished you pondered about. This are the questions that would clear your mind and give you a fresh perspective about you and life. Life is a gift. Life is a journey. One day we will all depart. One day we will go home but till then, we have a role to play in this wonderful universe.
This questions will shape and discipline your life. They will indeed give you another meaning concerning life. As long as you are alive, there lies an opportunity for you. Life is still your play ground. Do better, be better and the best is yet to come.
We have come to the end of our post for today. Your life is changing for the better indeed. Remember, ideas are worthless and useless without implementation. At the end of the day, it works if you work it. Till we meet again in the next post. Feel free to comment your thoughts on the comments section. Tell us what you think about the post. Also feel free to follow us on all our social media platforms. Till we meet again in the next post. Peace.
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